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I need the moral support right now, to keep myself from feeling like I'm the worlds worst person.
Don't! I felt like that on Sunday... still kinda feel like that. But you have good reasons for doing what you're doing. It's easy to doubt yourself when you know you're going to hurt someone, but you need to do what's right for YOU. Only you are in charge of your life... you're not in charge of his and he shouldn't be in charge of yours (emotionally, that is).
I need the moral support right now, to keep myself from feeling like I'm the worlds worst person.
Don't! I felt like that on Sunday... still kinda feel like that. But you have good reasons for doing what you're doing. It's easy to doubt yourself when you know you're going to hurt someone, but you need to do what's right for YOU. Only you are in charge of your life... you're not in charge of his and he shouldn't be in charge of yours (emotionally, that is).
He's very emotionally dependent on me, I dont' even know right now. fuck.
We have 2 cats, and I'll have to leave mine with him. fuck fuck fuck. I just cried thinking about it. She'll be in good hands but I don't want to be without her.
Sarah, we will care for you, we love you. You just tell us what you need. You have always been the best hostess and care taker but it's times like this when you get to switch places and let others do for you. Don't feel bad about it, just take it as a lesson in learning what the other side is like. I'll try to get down to Nash as early as I can and help you do whatever needs to be done for Mike's party.
Katy, that does suck. Really though if you aren't happy with him you must move on. To stay in that relationship will only lead to bitterness and will change the core of who you are. It's the most difficult when there isn't a solid reason to leave the person (cheater/loser/abuser). Hugs
Ive decided after 7 years to move out and break up with my boyfriend. I have to break the news and I honestly am scared. He's the nicest guy I've ever been with, and this would be so much easier if he was a jerk, but this time I'm the asshole. I can't see myself old with him and truthfully been unhappy for many years, but I am in love with him, so I never left thinking I would feel differently. Im not prepared to break someone's heart.
Oh Katy that is a rough time. Just try to keep in mind if you are feeling this way, it is the best thing for BOTH of you to break it off. You may feel like a dick about it, but it's the right thing to do. You both deserve to be happy.
We ended up talking for a couple hours last night and I agreed to a week of thinking about it more and letting him try to improve on some things that have been missing. I don't know if this is the right idea but he deserves at least that.
Post by roohippielove on Jul 7, 2012 15:52:03 GMT -5
KM - That sounds like a good idea but chances are you are delaying the inevitable, not to be a downer or anything. Either way it is your life and you have to do what's best for you and like crazykittensmile said, it is really best for both of you so you can both start healing. Best of luck to you and we are all here for support when you need it!
My GRRRRR for the day: my house is a quacking mess and I don't want to clean it but I need to...I just want to go PLLLAAAYYYYY!!!
this is tough.i know.ive never said anything here but i just left my wife of 22 years.it had to be and it is what it is. i know we both will be better for it.
this is tough.i know.ive never said anything here but i just left my wife of 22 years.it had to be and it is what it is. i know we both will be better for it.
I'm really sorry to hear that. I hope everything works out for the best. Take care during this time.
The people in my life suck. I've only talked to my bestie once in the last 2 weeks and am even considering ending our friendship of nearly 23 years. I'm about to have no one left in my life but a handful of family members because they're all self-centered, miserable people. I'm sick of everyone bringing me down or letting me down.
KK - bummer. But I'm largely in the same boat as you. It seems like every few years, I need to find a new best friend, or a new group of friends, or just something better for myself because I ended up in a lousy situation.
My current best friend of nine years has no permanent job, a car which is unreliable, no money plus six figures in debt, and has to be the one who does suicide watch on his little sister. He can't really go anywhere or do anything, and I don't feel like driving 100 miles all the time to go see him. Whenever I do see or hear from him, all he talks about is his work issues or his sister. My gf told me to find someone better.
I don't have too much but family and my gf left. And most of the time I can't even stand much of my family, for being miserable and manipulative people.
Family friend made a couple anti-Semitic comments. One of my uncles is wearing a shirt saying "Jesus loves you, but I'm His Favorite". At least four relatives so far have said Obama was born in Africa.
The people in my life suck. I've only talked to my bestie once in the last 2 weeks and am even considering ending our friendship of nearly 23 years. I'm about to have no one left in my life but a handful of family members because they're all self-centered, miserable people. I'm sick of everyone bringing me down or letting me down.
That's why you have US. We may be scattered about the US, but we're all here for you.
Just think about the awesome time you're going to have in 13 days with a bunch of amazing people ;D
The people in my life suck. I've only talked to my bestie once in the last 2 weeks and am even considering ending our friendship of nearly 23 years. I'm about to have no one left in my life but a handful of family members because they're all self-centered, miserable people. I'm sick of everyone bringing me down or letting me down.
That's why you have US. We may be scattered about the US, but we're all here for you.
Just think about the awesome time you're going to have in 13 days with a bunch of amazing people ;D
Family friend made a couple anti-Semitic comments. One of my uncles is wearing a shirt saying "Jesus loves you, but I'm His Favorite". At least four relatives so far have said Obama was born in Africa.
I would bring my opinion about all of this to their attention in the politest way possible. Then again, I don't always make the best decisions.
Post by dreamingtree on Jul 9, 2012 11:53:37 GMT -5
I never get to this thread often, but when I do, I just want to hug everyone and tell them things will work out So BIG hugs for all of you having issues, and just know that we are all here for you.
It may seem weird to some, to have "internet" friends, that are more supportive than real life friends, but it's how I met my husband and some of the best friends I have, so always feel free to reach out if you need support And most of you are on my FB, so always feel free to PM me if you need someone to talk to.
I've never really had "internet" friends before but I know I found the right group to make that happen. You guys are awesome. Much love!!
We are SOOOOO the right group. Be prepared for your life to be changed. And for the weird looks from others when you say that you are flying 1200 miles to hang out with "internet friends" Don't worry though, we will quickly become your real life friends if you let us ;D
Welcome back Bonz, but I do not find it strange that your presence being requested in the Orgy thread and then you showing up, like it was the quacking Bonzai Bat Signal.
You will get plenty of funny looks. People watch too many Dateline specials and just start to assume everyone on the internet is a murderer. I know my Mom thinks I'm going to wind up dead every time I do something with you guys.
Okay. Necessary background info for proper comprehension of the GRRR:
About 3 1/2 years ago, my friend (John) moved to California with a girl he had spent, no exaggeration, 6 years trying to date. 3 years of high school, 3 years of college before they finally started dating senior year of college.
John and his girl (who I also went to high school with) lived together for a year and a half before our other (at the time) good friend Mike moved out there. Since they were all friends, they moved to a two bedroom and Mike lived with the couple. About 3-4 months after that, Mike started sleeping with John's g/f. John eventually found out, and didn't do anything (mainly because John can tear limbs off of human beings, and Mike sports the Ethiopian marathon runner's physique). John just skewered and got over it without doing what comes natural to big Italians who are heartbroken (beating someone senseless).
Mike has been with the same girl since this all happened, and just informed me that he's moving to NYC....to my f*cking neighborhood. He wants me to attend his welcome home party, which will be packed with wall-to-wall d*cknose f*ckfaces and Mike basically wants to act like he never went to Cali, never banged my best friend's g/f, and never lied to me about it when I questioned him. I have a moral obligation not to be a jerk towards (or kill) him, mainly because his Mom got me out of life-screwing trouble when I was 17, and she made me promise to always look out for her son (who is a bonafide idiot).
Really? REALLY!? There are 6,000 neighborhoods in this f*cking city, and this sh*tbird needs to move into my backyard. Goddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd dammit.
For the record, I was being called sh*tbird for as long as I can remember. Oddly enough, the uncle who used it constantly was a high-ranking NYPD officer who was half-Polish.
Feeling really lightheaded and dizzy today, ugh. Want to go home from work but already taking off Friday for Forecastle so im suffering through it till 10pm.