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If you are doing nearly everything else, but avoiding weenis / vajayjay (censored, for the kids!) interaction... what's the difference?
Either way it's fornication, but I want something to look forward to when I'm married. I want to give the gift of my virginity to the girl I want to be with forever. Because of this, it's doubtful I would be having sex at Bonnaroo.
i know you are a religious guy from your post in the new-poster thread, so if it's for religious reasons, isn't the spirit of the rule more important than the letter?
The religious reasons are only half of it. The other half is much deeper, and involves something I don't feel comfortable sharing with people I just met. Before you assume anything, No, I haven't been abused, nor do I have Erectile Dysfunction.
No offense but you are setting yourself up to give your poor bride some of the worst "fornications" of her life.
Nice romanticism/dogma and all, but when you look around...everyone quacks just like everyone poops. Is it a shame-maybe. But I think wasting some of the best fornicatin' of your prime is kinda like wanting to graduate on your wedding night without ever having "gone to school". nuthin' but my 2 cents and some crunchies to welcome you !
well-no crunchies, I see. Have a smile instead...
Last Edit: Sept 29, 2009 11:08:56 GMT -5 by red - Back to Top
red might have a point. the first time is pretty far from the best time
and i had not assumed any software or hardware problems like you mentioned. in fact, i used to have a similar opinion. in the end, it was hyped up to be this big thing in my head, and when it finally happened - eh. wasn't such a big deal.
besides, marriage / long term relationships are more than fucking. the emotional support is the real thing to look forward to...
this message is brought to you by the acronyms: ymmv, imho, ianal
When I said "The Sex" that meant penetrative sexual intercourse. While I don't plan to do that til marriage, I'm open to other sexual activities, that don't fall under the term "The Sex."
At the end of the day, you're being physically intimate with someone that could result in you... er... spilling your seed? without the possibility of procreation. isn't that what it all comes down to? or is that the catholic in me whispering it's death throes? what am i missing?
Jumping into this thread for the first time
I just read this month's Glamour and there's an excerpt from a book about a Mormon girl in her 20's living in NYC. The piece was about how she decided to not lose her virginity and I feel like she gave an explanation for why one isn't supposed to have sex that actually made sense to me -
because when you have sex, you're creating life and since god creates life, this is something that brings you closer to god and therefore should remain sacred.
Okay, I think I totally messed that up, but I don't have the magazine in front of me. Anyway. The whole spilling of one's seed thing never made sense to me, but I can definitely wrap my head around this one.
Post by Filthy McNasty on Oct 14, 2009 20:07:22 GMT -5
My boyfriend and I just broke up, but we still were having sex after that. Twice so far... but now I'm moved into a different place, but I'm still close, so we still can, just not as often.
My boyfriend and I just broke up, but we still were having sex after that. Twice so far... but now I'm moved into a different place, but I'm still close, so we still can, just not as often.
yeeeah i know i dont know you and all, so please dont take offense... and by the way GOOD LUCK
Post by Filthy McNasty on Oct 17, 2009 17:54:57 GMT -5
I didn't take offense, but I have to say... I know my stuff, and I know I'm the best he's had, and anything after me will probably be dull. Not trying to be full of myself, but we do live in GA and there's not alot of good things around here. We're still best friends too, so it doesn't make it awkward or anything, and we don't do it everytime we see each other either, it's just a "happen to be horny" kinda thing. We're not afraid to go for it if we feel it comin on.
I didn't take offense, but I have to say... I know my stuff, and I know I'm the best he's had, and anything after me will probably be dull. Not trying to be full of myself, but we do live in GA and there's not alot of good things around here. We're still best friends too, so it doesn't make it awkward or anything, and we don't do it everytime we see each other either, it's just a "happen to be horny" kinda thing. We're not afraid to go for it if we feel it comin on.
Props to you for being able to seperate sex and feelings from a guy you've dated! Seriously, I'm usually very sarcastic about this but if you can keep it up you'll have a grade "A" screwbuddy, and that's always awesome.
Oh, and about the guy that's waiting to have "The Sex", good for you. If/When it feels right before marriage, go for it. If not, you're wife is obviously going to understand and she'll most likely be a virgin as well. Which means your first time will be the best she's ever had! Even if it doesn't exactly hit a 10 on the "nonvirgin" scale.
And on the same note, guys that aren't virgins aren't always good at "the sex" anyway.
Post by Filthy McNasty on Oct 20, 2009 18:26:22 GMT -5
Yeah, I'm happy with the relationship I have with him. The other day he came to visit me and he said he was goin outside, so I followed him, and we just went at it. We went all hippie and went into the woods and a tree worked very nicely to lean against. We eventually had to get out of the woods cause it's bobcat mating season and one started calling at us, and it was CLOSE
Post by Filthy McNasty on Oct 20, 2009 18:31:26 GMT -5
I accidentally hit enter and replied too soon, but to continue my story... we just went outside of another person's apartment, under their window, so they couldn't see us, and finished the deal. It was awesome. His friends were waiting in the house, and they knew exactly what was goin on, but I don't care. It was one of the best times ever, besides the time in the meadow and in the boat in the middle of the lake at like 2 in the morning. LOL. Sex is wonderful, and I don't know why some people think it's horrible. I guess their experiences weren't that awesome. I enjoy it thoroughly and I really try to do everything to where, if I had that part that a man has, what do I think would feel good. Please and you shall be pleased. And be a professional, not sloppy.
I didn't take offense, but I have to say... I know my stuff, and I know I'm the best he's had, and anything after me will probably be dull. Not trying to be full of myself, but we do live in GA and there's not alot of good things around here. We're still best friends too, so it doesn't make it awkward or anything, and we don't do it everytime we see each other either, it's just a "happen to be horny" kinda thing. We're not afraid to go for it if we feel it comin on.
Props to you for being able to seperate sex and feelings from a guy you've dated! Seriously, I'm usually very sarcastic about this but if you can keep it up you'll have a grade "A" screwbuddy, and that's always awesome.
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Def agree with this part, and am seriously rooting for it to work out for you
just anytime ive been in any sort of similar situation myself, it never ends well.... one person ( been on both ends of this too ) usually ends up more attatched to the other person emotionally , then eventually someone else comes into the picture on one side or the other, fighting, you arent even my girl/boyfriend...etc..
no offense again, and as with 90% of what i post on here it was heavy on the sarcasm...
Post by Filthy McNasty on Oct 21, 2009 20:47:51 GMT -5
Thank you. I mean, I do have feelings for him, but they're just the type of feelings that you would have with someone that you were with for a year. I care about him, and I try to be there for him, but I don't wanna be attached cause we're not dating and I know eventually he'll find someone else. Of coarse there is the possibility that we get together again in the future and I wanna secure that opportunity. I just wanna stay close, and I'm not the kinda girl that has sex just cause she loves someone. If I'm attracted, and I'm not with someone else, you'll probably get some. lol. It's just my way of showing my feelings.
Thank you. I mean, I do have feelings for him, but they're just the type of feelings that you would have with someone that you were with for a year. I care about him, and I try to be there for him, but I don't wanna be attached cause we're not dating and I know eventually he'll find someone else. Of coarse there is the possibility that we get together again in the future and I wanna secure that opportunity. I just wanna stay close, and I'm not the kinda girl that has sex just cause she loves someone. If I'm attracted, and I'm not with someone else, you'll probably get some. lol. It's just my way of showing my feelings.
If it is possible for BOTH of you to completely seperate sex and feelings then woohoo for you! ( and why does this guy apparently mean "embarassed" i think it is by far the coolest smiley there is.. i mean just look at that thumb!)
Post by Filthy McNasty on Oct 30, 2009 10:39:03 GMT -5
Haha, awesome smiley!
But yeah, we seperate sex and it's good for us. I mean, if we were to get back together in the future, the relationship would go right back into the sex, but for now, it's pretty awesome bein able to do it, smoke a cigarette, eat a meal, and then play video games and chill.
Post by Filthy McNasty on Oct 31, 2009 21:34:19 GMT -5
I live in Georgia, but Georgia is not the place to go for friends with benefits, unless you like red necks. I personally like the FWB selection in Minnesota. LOL.
