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Sanity: none myself, but i've convinced myself that that's why i love'm. AND AMEN WOLFEY!!! Not to sound fascist but the ladies pick the scumbags coz we still have tribal mindsets and said scumbags are perceived as alpha. Its evolutionary. Or I just love women so much that i tend to rationalize every crazy thing about them. Ultimately we can all blame mtv and enjoy a beer on the goodman's porch.
6 and a half billion is really an inconceivably big number. You guys make me happy. 3 weeks left for me to get on a plane US-wards. Yay yay,yay,yay!
I fail to see the connection between anything I said and 'having serious baggage'. I do have a problem with all guys getting a bad rap for the actions of a few douchebags, and frankly so should you. Oh.. oh. I think I get it. Nevermind. Continue whoring yourself, bro.
Sometimes I wonder why I ever try to say anything of substance on the internet. hah
Post by pondo ROCKS on May 18, 2010 15:59:44 GMT -5
Just be yourself at the Roo and things will work out for you...of course, I wear Viking horns and a Clock so I may not be the best judge of this...but if it is meant to happen, it will...if not, it is still BONNAROO not your local bar.
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I wouldn’t want to be with someone who has all the same interests as me it would be soooo boring. I would want someone to show me new things new experiences.
The first guy daisy was talking about seemed like kind of a plug don’t give him another shot. But the next dude…..yeah why not give him another shot. You miss 100% if the shots you don’t take and there is no real harm in asking. If you are waiting for the perfect guy he doesn’t exist.
Girls, There are only imperfect guys; you just have to find the one who won’t stop trying to be perfect for you
ps. everyone is weird just in different ways. And I hope this makes sense I am at work and going back and forth between this and work stuff.
I think alot of single girls, myself included, are just jaded. While, yes good guys are out there... the scumbags are the ones who seem to make all the moves. The nice guys just need to step up to the plate and show us what you got.
Ther are alot of Judgemental Hypocrites on this site.....alot of cool people too.
"Any fool can make things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It takes a touch of genius - and a lot of courage - to move in the opposite direction." -Einstien
"All these primary impulses, not easily described in words, are the springs of man's actions." -Einstien
Post by missbliss543 on May 18, 2010 22:51:33 GMT -5
OK, as far as the "weirdo" thing goes, I personally was using at as a way to describe men that are bad. Bad could be many things, but in the end, it happens that they're bad for you = Bad Weird. Weird as a general term is GOOD. I'm as weird as they come. Everyone is unique and should show it. = Good Weird. And I do apologize for lumping all men into the Bad Weird category. In my defense, I did say only 95% lol... but I shouldn't have said it at all because I don't believe it. I was just saying it tongue-in-cheek... BUT at 28 years old after 2 long term failed relationships and countless bad dates, yes I'm jaded and cynical... but still have hope. Somehow. I know there's good guys out there, I know quite a few of them actually. They just aren't available =)
I'm convinced 95% of guys are weirdos. Even if they don't seem like it at first. Hopefully eventually someone will prove me wrong... And this is a big "maybe" but maybe when a guy invites you back to his place, he really does just want to hang out some more? And that's it? Maybe? lol
ok here is the deal everyone...
girls.. sorry... BUT you are ALL freaking crazy!!!
every last one of you are... to varying degrees of course...
us guys?? we are ALL A Holes, again to varying degrees....
the trick is finding a combo that "mixes well" for you both
this philosophy may have something to do with why im still single though!!
Post by missbliss543 on May 18, 2010 23:12:50 GMT -5
^^^ I pretty much agree. I have to add that men can be just as crazy. And women can be a- holes. The trick is to find someone that makes you never want to be a crazy a- hole again!
I think this is actually turning into the "bash all guys because almost all of them are scumbags, even the cool ones who go to festivals and are actually sensitive, responsible, caring human beings, all they really want is a piece of ass and we all know it because we are all goddesses who never do or say a wrong thing" thread.
Seriously guys what is going on?? Where do you poor ladies live that you are surrounded by such scum? I invite ladies over sometimes after a date (hah not that I've actually had a date in recent memory, most women prefer scumbags apparently haha..) and you know what we do? We watch a movie. Or we sit on my front porch and drink a beer. Or we start a fire in the back yard and talk for a little while. Then she usually goes home. That's all. I don't start groping and grabbing and getting demanding and hateful. I have to wonder about you ladies' choice in guys if this is really such a problem. No friend of mine would ever even CONSIDER behaving in a manner such as you describe. I'm not saying they aren't out there - they are all over the place - but they can also be avoided.
Anyway, enough ranting, I just got tired of the entire focus of the mingling thread being against all guys. We aren't all bad. Some of us are bad. Some women are just as bad. I think most of us on Inforoo are pretty solid dudes and dudettes. :]
Wolfaroo is back!!!!!! I feared we had lost you to some freak parasailing accident at Hangout. Glad to see you buddy.
Not all guys are scumbags just a select few who make women more wary of the rest of them. I'm certainly far from perfect and the furthest thing from a goddess around. I'm not looking for a perfect guy just a nice guy that I can actually count on and trust. I've been assaulted three times and stalked twice. I've had to move, change phone numbers, change emails, hire an attorney, press charges, etc. I shouldn't have to worry that every guy out there is a psycho but experience has taught me to be cautious. Most of my girlfriends have horror stories about being assaulted as well. Not all men are as enlightened as you. Sad but true.
I don't have a problem being invited back to a guy's place. I have a problem with being invited back to his place after a FIRST date. That is just ridiculous. It's moving too fast and causes me to think less of the guy who asked. I'd be cool with it on a 3rd or 4th date but asking on the first date however innocent the intent may be makes a bad impression.
The tricky thing about scumbags is that they're exceptionally smooth. They seem like the nicest, sweetest guys in the world at first. You don't realize they're scumbags until later when they turn.
Love makes women blind and stupid. I've dated a lot of men who were bad for me and my friends and brothers have either bit their tongues or advised me to end it. I of course ignored them. I'm pretty sure I'd do the same thing if I had it to do over again though. I learned a lot from those relationships and there were a lot of happy times mixed in with the bad times. Every relationship has ups and downs. And yeah, there are a lot of women who are just as bad as men. I agree that most people on the board seem like good people though.
Post by forrestsjennie on May 18, 2010 23:41:30 GMT -5
eh, I find NOT rationalizing anybody has worked well for me.
trying to be politically correct for everyone is a hard thing to accomplish (impossible in my opinion), you might believe everyone is weird/crazy in a good/bad way, but I just choose not to judge anybody on a universal scale... I think everyone is who they are despite what anyone else thinks they should be.
I've just fallen in love with "LCD-Dance yourself clean", and one of the things Im most grateful in life for is sharing an awesome track with someone Im intimate with. Or will be intimate with... hinthint.. hahahaha
Has anyone actually read all 342 pages of this thread? I wonder how it goes. All I know is Im tired of all this arguing and fighting... can't we just get along and get on with the make-up sex already? or keep fighting and have some angry-sex!
Post by forrestsjennie on May 19, 2010 9:28:17 GMT -5
out of all the bands playing, which would you like to have sex to most? assuming you could/would want to get down and dirty in the middle of the set on the ground
out of all the bands playing, which would you like to have sex to most? assuming you could/would want to get down and dirty in the middle of the set on the ground
Yes! Great question. I saw some people getting it on under a tarp in '08 latenight during MMJ, and i did so during String Cheese in '07.
The Gossip blasting at 2,000 decibels while getting down on the ground would be ideal. I'd have to go with Passion Pit or Pretty Lights last year, and !!! from '08.
haha angry sex. Daisy it sounds like you really bring the crazies out of the woodwork, you must be pretty hot stuff ;D
Hey, angry sex is hot. Yeah, I don't know what it is but I seem to be a magnet for the crazies. I think maybe I'm too friendly. I smile at strangers as I walk down the street and I'm always happy to talk to anyone. Maybe if I just became one of those people who stopped making eye contact and stopped interacting with people then I'd get fewer crazies. I don't really have it in me though. I like meeting new people. Maybe guys just like the idea of corrupting me. Who knows?
So, tell us about Hangout! A beach full of bikini babes, great music... You meet anyone? We want details!
out of all the bands playing, which would you like to have sex to most? assuming you could/would want to get down and dirty in the middle of the set on the ground
God, that's a tough one! I think I have to go with Deadmau5 though.
Hangout was great, spent some time with a girl I've been talking to for a while, it was good. The bikini babes everywhere were a definite bonus. Music rocked, the beach rocked, swimming in the ocean rocked (literally, it beat the crap out of me hah) and pretty much everything about the festival totally rocked. The late night Keller Williams electronica show? It rocked. haha
I'd love to get it on to a live Chromeo set for sure ;D I imagine Ween would be pretty hot too. Yeah.
haha angry sex. Daisy it sounds like you really bring the crazies out of the woodwork, you must be pretty hot stuff ;D
Hey, angry sex is hot. Yeah, I don't know what it is but I seem to be a magnet for the crazies. I think maybe I'm too friendly. I smile at strangers as I walk down the street and I'm always happy to talk to anyone. Maybe if I just became one of those people who stopped making eye contact and stopped interacting with people then I'd get fewer crazies. I don't really have it in me though. I like meeting new people. Maybe guys just like the idea of corrupting me. Who knows?
So, tell us about Hangout! A beach full of bikini babes, great music... You meet anyone? We want details!
Wow...I'm so flattered that I'm in your dreams! I bet it was a fab time! I agree, when you are happy to talk to anyone - you get a lot of creepy people when you're so open and friendly yourself. It's weird! I really think we're long lost sisters or something..hehe!
Oh it was amazing Monkey! We were skipping along with Mike D Wizard of Oz style and we came upon Wolfaroo's house. He was throwing a party so we decided to hang out for a bit. Then you and I were chasing cute boys. It was so much fun! I hope tonight's dream is just as much fun. I think we may be long lost sisters. Separated at birth through some hospital mishap. Being open and friendly definitely has some drawbacks but I wouldn't have it any other way. The interesting and fabulous people you meet far outweigh the small number of creeps you come across. Life is grand! We have the schedule and it's almost Roo time! ;D