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The thing that's really bothering me is the initial arrest. Like, don't they have to tell you you're being placed under arrest? I feel like the officer really misled my friend into a false sense of security. I've never been arrested so I really don't know. It just doesn't seem right, but maybe it is and anger is just taking over in my brain.
I'm not sure if it's legal or not, but a lot of times - they'll just arrest you and come up with the charges when they're filing the report or first putting you into the system. Some people who have been arrested didn't know for what until the next day.
Post by heyyitskait on Aug 29, 2014 9:19:08 GMT -5
Thanks everyone. Much appreciated.
Got a call from another friend last night that our friend got shit faced secretly and called him. Started screaming and going nuts on him, violating the protective/restraining order. So the cops were coming to her apartment. I'm kinda mad at my friend for leaving her there alone, but I dunno. Maybe it was all she could do. I was in Mass. last night and couldn't really do anything.
Now I just wish I could save her from herself. But I can't. :/
Edit: and now weird details are starting to fill in. I'm just gonna give her that info billypilgrim posted and be as supportive as possible. This shit is too murky for me.
I'm usually a pretty calm guy. I don't get angry. I did today. I've only been this pissed off one other time in the last 10 years. Fuck everything. Goodnight.
I'm usually a pretty calm guy. I don't get angry. I did today. I've only been this pissed off one other time in the last 10 years. Fuck everything. Goodnight.
Love you token. I hope you wake up feeling better and you can just start fresh. Hang in there, everything passes. Hugs!!!!
I'm usually a pretty calm guy. I don't get angry. I did today. I've only been this pissed off one other time in the last 10 years. Fuck everything. Goodnight.
Post by abrakapokus on Sept 1, 2014 9:49:32 GMT -5
I'm so incredibly sad about Mountain Oasis. It's mostly all the people I'll not get to see but the area, the costumes, the food as well. I can't get past it.
Post by monkybunney on Sept 1, 2014 23:42:35 GMT -5
Some one I love is destroying themselves. I've already posted about this in a couple of threads. She text'ed me about getting out of a hospital for detox. I didn't respond. She text'ed me she was leaving town. I encouraged her to do that. She text'ed me that only I and a few other people knew she was planning to bail on this town. I encouraged her to do that. She text'ed me she couldn't do it right away. She was staying in a park just down the street from my place. No where else to go.
I know she is hitting me up for a place to stay. I'm pretty certain she has been using. It's a judgment call. I decide NO. A few hours later her FB status is "In A Civil Union" with the same piece of shit she was trying to escape from in the first place. The same piece of shit she has been running to me from since I got here.
In response to the news of their "union" I cobbled together a video and dedicated it to her. Is this too heavy handed?
Some one I love is destroying themselves. I've already posted about this in a couple of threads. She text'ed me about getting out of a hospital for detox. I didn't respond. She text'ed me she was leaving town. I encouraged her to do that. She text'ed me that only I and a few other people knew she was planning to bail on this town. I encouraged her to do that. She text'ed me she couldn't do it right away. She was staying in a park just down the street from my place. No where else to go.
I know she is hitting me up for a place to stay. I'm pretty certain she has been using. It's a judgment call. I decide NO. A few hours later her FB status is "In A Civil Union" with the same piece of shit she was trying to escape from in the first place. The same piece of shit she has been running to me from since I got here.
In response to the news of their "union" I cobbled together a video and dedicated it to her. Is this too heavy handed?
Sometimes heavy handed is all you can offer a sick friend. I have been homeless, an addict, and in a violent relationship, and I was fortunate to have friends that, even though they couldn't offer me their home during my sickness, still expressed their concern, empathy, and love for me. While I didn't understand at the time why they "abandoned" me (by not allowing me to be an active part of their lives), ten years gone and now I understand. Your love for your friend can't go any further than her love for herself, and al you can do (at least, what my friends did for me) is to be there when she truly decides it's time for a change. The few close friends who were still there after I began to dig myself out of my hole were brutally honest and really opened my eyes to how lost I had been and how much pain I had caused. It was hard to watch your video because of my own past and those images that hit so close to home, but it also shows your concern for her well-being. Love and prayers for you and your friend, and I hope she finds her way out.
Post by itrainmonkeys on Sept 2, 2014 16:52:02 GMT -5
Think i'm dealing with another kidney stone. Dealing with some pain and couldn't really sleep last night. Going to the doctor Thursday and then hopefully a Urologist soon after. Really not looking forward to this but kinda hoping it's as simple as a kidney stone and not something else going on.
Think i'm dealing with another kidney stone. Dealing with some pain and couldn't really sleep last night. Going to the doctor Thursday and then hopefully a Urologist soon after. Really not looking forward to this but kinda hoping it's as simple as a kidney stone and not something else going on.
Sh*t is bad when you're HOPING it's a kidney stone , right?
Think i'm dealing with another kidney stone. Dealing with some pain and couldn't really sleep last night. Going to the doctor Thursday and then hopefully a Urologist soon after. Really not looking forward to this but kinda hoping it's as simple as a kidney stone and not something else going on.
Sh*t is bad when you're HOPING it's a kidney stone , right?
Yea....not so much bad as wanting to go with the mystery ailment I know instead of the ailment I don't.
I've had to deal with Kidney Stones twice before and I've lucked out because I had to have this procedure done to blast up the stones in my body so I didn't have to go through the terrible pain of passing it through my system like most people have had. If it's a stone and IF that's an option then I'll be happier since it's something that I've already been through twice and fixed the problem right up. Been a couple years since the last stone though.
Yea....not so much bad as wanting to go with the mystery ailment I know instead of the ailment I don't.
I've had to deal with Kidney Stones twice before and I've lucked out because I had to have this procedure done to blast up the stones in my body so I didn't have to go through the terrible pain of passing it through my system like most people have had. If it's a stone and IF that's an option then I'll be happier since it's something that I've already been through twice and fixed the problem right up. Been a couple years since the last stone though.
Just because stones in the past were small enough to be pulverized doesn't mean they will be in the future. Anything under 5 mm can be pulverized, anything larger and well......... good luck. I've broken, dislocated, and torn about every major muscle, bone, and tendon and passing kidney stones was without a doubt the most physically painful day of my life.
My first kidney stone was stuck on my kidney because it was so large. I want to say it was 9 mm? I think that's right....I know it was very big. I remember them telling me "Well....0 to 5 is normal and 6 to 10 is large. Yours is 9" but I can't be certain. I do know it was a big one that wouldn't have passed on it's own. The second one wasn't quite so big but they thought it was at first (weird spot on the X-ray that made them think something else was the stone) but still did the pulverizing thing since we had it scheduled. I'm not looking forward to passing this if it is one but will have to deal with it. Been in some pain the last two days though. Tough to lay down on my back and I have trouble sleeping on my side.
Yea....not so much bad as wanting to go with the mystery ailment I know instead of the ailment I don't.
I've had to deal with Kidney Stones twice before and I've lucked out because I had to have this procedure done to blast up the stones in my body so I didn't have to go through the terrible pain of passing it through my system like most people have had. If it's a stone and IF that's an option then I'll be happier since it's something that I've already been through twice and fixed the problem right up. Been a couple years since the last stone though.
Just because stones in the past were small enough to be pulverized doesn't mean they will be in the future. Anything under 5 mm can be pulverized, anything larger and well......... good luck. I've broken, dislocated, and torn about every major muscle, bone, and tendon and passing kidney stones was without a doubt the most physically painful day of my life.
I said the wrong thing too. Anything under 5mm has to be passed, anything over can be pulverized so the prior post was deleted. As was my 4 paragraph response to your post. I'll show myself the door.
Haha, I did think it was kind of cruel that LARGE stones were expected to be passed. Whew!
Post by wannaberoo'ing on Sept 2, 2014 19:26:08 GMT -5
Aw shit itrainmonkeys, I'm sorry to hear that you may have another one stuck in there. Is it the same side as before? I mean where the pain is radiating from. I've passed stones three times since I was 16, the last one was the worst and it was just last fall that it happened. Always my right kidney. Calcium stones.
You will have to ask your MD about getting on the preventive pills that help chronic stone builders like us from even forming them. Stop drinking dark fluids (if you do).
Sh*t is bad when you're HOPING it's a kidney stone , right?
Yea....not so much bad as wanting to go with the mystery ailment I know instead of the ailment I don't.
I've had to deal with Kidney Stones twice before and I've lucked out because I had to have this procedure done to blast up the stones in my body so I didn't have to go through the terrible pain of passing it through my system like most people have had. If it's a stone and IF that's an option then I'll be happier since it's something that I've already been through twice and fixed the problem right up. Been a couple years since the last stone though.
Post by crazykittensmile on Sept 4, 2014 18:11:00 GMT -5
Having a really short/simple personal email address is a blessing and a curse. I am ALWAYS getting emails for shit people who aren't me sign up for. It's usually people with the same first name as me, so I guess they just completely space on their own email address. Dumbasses.
Having a really short/simple personal email address is a blessing and a curse. I am ALWAYS getting emails for shit people who aren't me sign up for. It's usually people with the same first name as me, so I guess they just completely space on their own email address. Dumbasses.
I didn't know crazykitten was such a popular first name.
Post by crazykittensmile on Sept 9, 2014 12:28:34 GMT -5
Fuck people who don't respond to their craigslist ticket ads, or take them down once they've been sold. How hard is it to be a responsible scalper? Jerkwads.