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when I do go to happy hour, which isn't often (almost never as a matter of fact), it's for cheap drinks and food, as Bonnie says.
Thinking back to when I was single for the first 28 years of my life, if I ever went anywhere specifically to meet members of the opposite sex it didn't work out - be it going to bars or anyone else. Hell, I even had a fake name (2 actually) and phone number that I gave out in bars.
Pretty sure that if there is a Mr. Right in my future, I won't meet him in a bar.
Yet it is in this loneliness that the deepest activities begin. It is here that you discover act without motion, labor that is profound repose, vision in obscurity, and, beyond all desire, a fulfillment whose limits extend to infinity.
~ Thomas Merton ~
We need an Inforoo bar games tour. now THAT would be fun. Darts, pool, trivia, shuffleboard, whatever all we could find to compete in. It would be like the Inforoo Bar Olympics. May as well throw in a drinking game although I'm pretty sure I would not be the winner at any of those.
We could swing the tour through multiple stops or just have a host city each time.
I actually started this post in semi-jest but am liking the idea!
Welcome back Bonz, but I do not find it strange that your presence being requested in the Orgy thread and then you showing up, like it was the quacking Bonzai Bat Signal.
April 12-14th - Indio, CA - Coachella Weekend 1
May 3-5th - Memphis, TN - Beale St. Music Festival
June 13-16th - Manchester, TN - Bonnaroo
July 12-14th - Louisville, KY - Forecastle Festival
August 2-4th - Chicago, IL - Lollapalooza
September 27-29th - Atlanta, GA - TomorrowWorld
October 25-27th - Asheville, NC - Mountain Oasis
What do I do with all these caught feelings over this girl with a boyfriend?
She's really cool, incredibly nice, really cute, laughs at all my stupid jokes. I'm shook guys, shook.
What you don't do is make any overt moves. Not only can it sour whatever potential you may have with this girl later on, you come off looking like a creep. Stay friendly, keep a relationship, and just wait it out while you continue to keep your prospects open. Even if she comes to you and is all "oh, NoD, I'm so unhappy in my relationship. He hates the Cubs and knows nothing about modern electronic music," you stand your ground. If she breaks up with him at some point, slide right in. But you shouldn't do anything to prompt that, and here's why. If you somehow make a move and she goes for it, will you ever really be able to trust her? And if she doesn't, well you've just shot yourself in the foot.
What do I do with all these caught feelings over this girl with a boyfriend?
She's really cool, incredibly nice, really cute, laughs at all my stupid jokes. I'm shook guys, shook.
What you don't do is make any overt moves. Not only can it sour whatever potential you may have with this girl later on, you come off looking like a creep. Stay friendly, keep a relationship, and just wait it out while you continue to keep your prospects open. Even if she comes to you and is all "oh, NoD, I'm so unhappy in my relationship. He hates the Cubs and knows nothing about modern electronic music," you stand your ground. If she breaks up with him at some point, slide right in. But you shouldn't do anything to prompt that, and here's why. If you somehow make a move and she goes for it, will you ever really be able to trust her? And if she doesn't, well you've just shot yourself in the foot.
April 12-14th - Indio, CA - Coachella Weekend 1
May 3-5th - Memphis, TN - Beale St. Music Festival
June 13-16th - Manchester, TN - Bonnaroo
July 12-14th - Louisville, KY - Forecastle Festival
August 2-4th - Chicago, IL - Lollapalooza
September 27-29th - Atlanta, GA - TomorrowWorld
October 25-27th - Asheville, NC - Mountain Oasis
What you don't do is make any overt moves. Not only can it sour whatever potential you may have with this girl later on, you come off looking like a creep. Stay friendly, keep a relationship, and just wait it out while you continue to keep your prospects open. Even if she comes to you and is all "oh, NoD, I'm so unhappy in my relationship. He hates the Cubs and knows nothing about modern electronic music," you stand your ground. If she breaks up with him at some point, slide right in. But you shouldn't do anything to prompt that, and here's why. If you somehow make a move and she goes for it, will you ever really be able to trust her? And if she doesn't, well you've just shot yourself in the foot.
He's been living in a different city for as long as I've really hung out with her. He's coming back to live in Buffalo in a month or so.
Juggs is right, sometimes it just helps to see it written out.
Yeah, basically do what Juggs said.
Also, as the person who has broken up a couple before (which I regret doing), you don't come off as a white in shining armor. You are forever associated with the ex-b/f and that limits the chance for anything legitimate to come out of it except for a few dates before she pulls a "I think I jumped into this too quickly, I need some space."
How long have you been friends with this girl? Is it someone you've just met recently and she's had a boyfriend the entirety of the friendship? Do you guys hang out just you two often? Juggs' advice is super good, but I'm just sort of wondering the context of yours and her's relationship.
He's been living in a different city for as long as I've really hung out with her. He's coming back to live in Buffalo in a month or so.
Juggs is right, sometimes it just helps to see it written out.
Yeah, basically do what Juggs said.
Also, as the person who has broken up a couple before (which I regret doing), you don't come off as a white in shining armor. You are forever associated with the ex-b/f and that limits the chance for anything legitimate to come out of it except for a few dates before she pulls a "I think I jumped into this too quickly, I need some space."
Or even worse....he makes a move and gets shot down. Then the girl and her boyfriend talk about him and he's branded as the dude who tried to break them up...which then kinda hurts chances if they do break up down the line.
How long have you been friends with this girl? Is it someone you've just met recently and she's had a boyfriend the entirety of the friendship? Do you guys hang out just you two often? Juggs' advice is super good, but I'm just sort of wondering the context of yours and her's relationship.
Few months, and yea she's been dating this guy the entire time.
As to hanging out, not really. It's mostly in groups unless I talk to her alone at a party or bar. I feel kind of weird about this whole thing so I haven't really pressed anything further than that.
Also, as the person who has broken up a couple before (which I regret doing), you don't come off as a white in shining armor.
Or a knight in shining armor, for that matter.
Ughhhh, leave me alone, I've been covering nights at work in addition to my regular daytime hours, so I'm lucky to not be passing out at my desk right now.
but I do not find it strange that your presence being requested in the Orgy thread and then you showing up, like it was the quacking Bonzai Bat Signal. 
