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I think most of the problem is me. I am expecting too much. I really like her and want her to like me just as much. But she is a native Korean and I am a foreigner. I have to let her get to know me, we've only gotten together 4 times in 3 weeks. Most of our communicating has been through texts and facebook. She has a LOT of foreign friends. A LOT of foreign guy friends. But she is giving me something extra I can tell. We had a good date. 7+ hours of late-night fun, just the two of us.
You all are helping me through this a lot. Thanks so much. I think I just need to try and not think about it and let whatever happens happen.
Here's my (unsolicited) two cents' worth from a female's perspective: if a chick wants to be with you, she will move mountains to make it happen. She won't flake out. Sure, she might be tired & really want to take a nap. Hell, I did that recently...slept right thru some "plans" I'd sorta kinda made.
Bottom line: she's giving you clues. It might be better to gracefully exit now before you get attached. It's much less painful that way...
Here's a male perspective. She's playing hard to get. I had a woman keep telling me to leave her alone. But I persisted, because I knew it was a game she was playing. Even when she got a temporary restraining order against me, I knew that despite her words, deeds, lawyers' threatening letters, and some pretty intimidating warnings from the local cops, that we were meant to be together. I eventually stopped pursuing her, but only because I got tired of her games. Her loss.
Here's my (unsolicited) two cents' worth from a female's perspective: if a chick wants to be with you, she will move mountains to make it happen. She won't flake out. Sure, she might be tired & really want to take a nap. Hell, I did that recently...slept right thru some "plans" I'd sorta kinda made.
Bottom line: she's giving you clues. It might be better to gracefully exit now before you get attached. It's much less painful that way...
Here's a male perspective. She's playing hard to get. I had a woman keep telling me to leave her alone. But I persisted, because I knew it was a game she was playing. Even when she got a temporary restraining order against me, I knew that despite her words, deeds, lawyers' threatening letters, and some pretty intimidating warnings from the local cops, that we were meant to be together. I eventually stopped pursuing her, but only because I got tired of her games. Her loss.
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since my last update she has made some more less-than-subtle hints that she either isn't interested in me anymore, or playing very hard to get. She still texts me occasionally, asking what's up. I'm over it now though. I've made a lot of friends on various hiking trips in the past couple of weeks and have taken a few of them out to dinner. I needed something to get my mind off her, and it worked.
Not sure what got into me, but I decided to go down to the local bar Saturday night to watch the Ohio State game. I had to scope the bar for a little while to snag a spot. Random girl approached to order a beer at the crowded bar. She asks what I am drinking (it was a Lucifer Belgian Ale). Then proceeds to tell me about a few of the beers on the list, one being local and the other was her "favorite". Offers me a taste of her Lost Rhino Face Pant IPA...then goes back to play pool. She did come back to pay her tab, introduced herself and was on her way. Wow, it all happens so fast and infrequently. I am sure some of you with better game would have capitalized on that interaction way better than I did...Good stuff. :-)
Not sure what got into me, but I decided to go down to the local bar Saturday night to watch the Ohio State game. I had to scope the bar for a little while to snag a spot. Random girl approached to order a beer at the crowded bar. I am sure some of you with better game would have capitalized on that interaction way better than I did...
Just a random thought on how to "capitalize on that interaction": if guys (and girls - we're just as guilty of this!) would spend more time looking at the people in the room and less time staring at their phone & texting, they would send out a signal that says "Hey, I'm approachable! Come talk to me!" Instead, people often use phones as crutches. And FWIW, if I see a hot guy at a bar (esp. if he's drinking a beer I like), I'd be more inclined to approach him if he didn't seem like he was on a date w/his Droid.
Welcome back Bonz, but I do not find it strange that your presence being requested in the Orgy thread and then you showing up, like it was the quacking Bonzai Bat Signal.
Welcome back Bonz, but I do not find it strange that your presence being requested in the Orgy thread and then you showing up, like it was the quacking Bonzai Bat Signal.
Ok. Point taken. With the facial hair, I feel like he's a wild animal that will hunt me down and eat me in a forest.
Wait...what? Is this how most women that enjoy beards think? Are they living out some weird wilderness fantasy when they hook up with me? If so, sweet.
And FWIW, if I see a hot guy at a bar (esp. if he's drinking a beer I like), I'd be more inclined to approach him if he didn't seem like he was on a date w/his Droid.
Again, just my two cents' worth.
I tried to have two dates at the same time, Heather and the Stratosphere. Heather won't let me do that anymore.
If I'm single and at the bar alone, you think I'm cute - just say something. I'll put the phone down. I might entirely be addicted to my phone, which is a problem.
And FWIW, if I see a hot guy at a bar (esp. if he's drinking a beer I like), I'd be more inclined to approach him if he didn't seem like he was on a date w/his Droid.
Again, just my two cents' worth.
I tried to have two dates at the same time, Heather and the Stratosphere. Heather won't let me do that anymore.
If I'm single and at the bar alone, you think I'm cute - just say something. I'll put the phone down. I might entirely be addicted to my phone, which is a problem.
I would never ever ever approach a dude who is obsessively checking his phone. Why put up another barrier for someone to talk to you?
Stubble is SEXY AS HELL; full-blown, ferocious grizzly bear look = scary. But that's just me. None of my white-collar fantasies ever include lumberjacks, werewolves, or patchouli-wearin' hippies.
Aaaah, CKS, I'm the opposite: I want to see clean-shaven on the date then wake up next to stubble.